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The Butterfly Club Tuesday Evenings are Greedy Girl nights from -10pm until 3am offering a Special Membership to Single Guys which is applicable to the event only Couples or Single Ladies who like extra Male Attention will enjoy these evenings

The Butterfly Club is not a - pay for ! - Gangbang party pay for ! - Sex party, It is simply an event whereby attending couples and females may be interested in selective multi guy sexual fun of their choosing,

Based on actual experiences and extensive research, couples and single ladies interested in getting a group of guys together for fun meets, are finding it increasingly more difficult to do, though, we are in a more liberated Era, and our communication methods have never been easier, it also is fact the amount of persons only interested in staying indoors, behind a web cam and those addicted to cybersex, are far out numbering those that want to get out and do real meets

These Cybersex Warriors are solely interested in web cam fun, or cyber activities, boring email ping pong, pic collecting and the use of chat rooms, MSN etc, seems to be the norm. If you perhaps have tried running private adds on swingers sites or the like, you may have heard or experienced yourselves how difficult it is these days to procure suitable candidates for fun The lead ups to the selection or verifications seem to take forever, then when the crunch comes and the meets on, of course the couple or single lady then becomes sexually hyped up looking forward to the future frivolities. etc

Sadly as is confirmed on many a swinging site, and heard so often in the chat rooms, the number of "No Shows"after so many promises from persons to be at meets, and or special parties is disheartening and tends to leave ones ego's in tatters. The carefully selected chosen few, with thoughtless disregard,will often send a cold text hours, or moments before the event, or just not show and so often the pitiful lame excuses just add to the utter frustration leaving the advertisers so much more than downhearted

Swingers Clubs have in the main made life easier for frisky couples and single females,the ability to attend and simply choose their prey makes for an exciting time with little chance of being disappointed, and yes many clubs offer greedy girls nights, but we have decided to dedicate The Butterfly Club to that style of event only, providing a solid membership base of willing males.

We have chosen to form the club keeping membership and contributions sensibly in touch notwithstanding we have maintained strict membership criteria and implemented guide lines and rules which must be strictly observed by all attendees for the benefits of all players

A safe sexy environment ambient erotic surroundings the lighting has been specifically designed for the comforts of women and all of our play areas are clean and inviting remain that way throughout our evenings. Our play rooms are fun and erotic so you can use your imaginations to create your own fantasy scenarios within


FAQ: Frequently asked Questions

Q:Do I have to be a member to get in?

A: Yes. Our Club is a Private Members club, Everyone is welcome but Membership is Required.

Q: Is there a smoking area?

A:Yes It's located outside .

Q:Can I bring a camera?

A: No Photos No Mobile Phones No Filming

Q:Im a single guy am I welcome at these Parties?

A: Polite Single Males who are Dressed Neat / Tidy and understand the meaning of "NO" are very welcome

Q:Do we have to participate, can we just watch?

A:You may attend as many times as you wish to watch or sit and chat you are never under any obligation to do anything

Q:My Girl likes to choose guys individually she has a penchant for certain types of guys,will this be a problem will other guys she doesnt choose take offence?

A:Certainly not it is always ladies choice if anyone gets offended or takes offence at your ladies freedom of choice ,they will be asked to leave.

Q: We are a couple do we have to play?

ALSO can I participate if my lady friend does not want too ?

A:If you join as a couple, there is an obligation for you to behave as a couple, participation is entirely up to you,

However as a couple the male can not participate, if the female does not wish too, such practices clearly identifies the male as a ticket,a ticket is a person usually male who gains entry at a reduced cost to avoid single male contributions.

The Rules and policies are strict and enforced, Ticket Males are NOT welcome at our events.

Q: Having never been before - is it a 'hands-on' event?

A:No. Ask before you touch. we have Zero tolerance to any unwanted touching or attention No Means No

Q:Your website says I can bring my own alcohol, can I drink all that I bring is there a limit on how much I bring.?

A:Whilst we allow the consumption of your own alcohol we do not tolerate obnoxious or inconsiderate behaviour, by intoxicated persons,if our Bar staff feel you have had enough to drink you will be refused further alcohol at our discretion,If you disagree with our actions you will be given your Remaining Alcohol and asked to leave.

Q:Do I have to wear a Condom?

A:We suggest at all times that persons interacting sexually do so safely and sensibly,Condoms are available always,and we strongly recommend their use,however individuals are free to make their own Adult choices,regarding Condoms.

Q:Can my wife wear see thru outfits ,or fetish wear?

A:Yes of course Sexy people in Sexy surroundings,please both Males and Females make an effort with your dress and grooming.

Q: Are there cabs available towards the end?

A:Yes cabs are available all evening ask staff to organise one.

Q: It will be my first time. Can someone show me around?

A: Yes. If it's your first time or you're arriving on your own we have a Meet & Greet Service. You will get shown around and introduced if required


  • Standard Adult Etiquette and Rules Apply.
  • Always ask first!
  • NO means NO!
  • NO pressure - NO pestering. NO exceptions!

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Club owners operators reserve the right to add amend these Rules without formal notice at any time "keep updated"

"Tuesday's Butterfly Club Meets are *The Best Midweek Swingers Event in London*

  • Membership Applications Standard Application Conditions Apply Full ID is Required

  • UK Gold Registered Guys : Its just - £30.00 -
  • Silver Registered Guys : Its just - £40.00 -

  • New Member Couples interested in attending the Tuesday Butterfly Club Events contribute One Time only Life Membership £20.00 per Couple + Entry £10.00 p/cple Thereafter as Members £10.00 p/couple***)

  • Single Females Contribution - £20.00 Includes Lifetime membership of All of Ourplace4fun Events and Entry on the night , thereafter Single Females are FREE all Venue Events

  • If you hold a valid Membership to - Ourplace4fun London then Membership to The Butterfly Club is "inclusive"
  • Bring your own Alcohol
  • Neat Dress Required
  • Clean attire.
  • NO baseball caps /hats or hoods.
  • NO ripped Jeans, TrackSuits or Dirty clothes.

  • Guys use the Website "NO phone Info"

  • Phones only Attended after 3pm on Days we Open

    Should you Need to Call or Text us you must Identify yourself with your Real Name, or Membership Number in all Instances
    We will not Communicate with Unidentified Callers or Annonymous Texts
    ::::WITHHELD Numbers are Never Answered
    ::::: Direct Voice Calls Only (NO TEXT) ::::::07906 903262

    (Do not leave Voice Mail Messages We will not Return the Call)(Always Identify yourself)

    STRICTLY NO EVENT INFORMATION by Text or Phone Read it Here
    :::::: Text Only (NO Voice CALLS):::::07986 303885

    (Always Identify yourself)---

    Why we Ask You to Identify yourself:::

    If a Total Stranger Sent you a Text or Called Asking Questions About your Business would you Respond

    The Same goes for Cold Callers

    We Must Identify with Whom we are Communicating,so that we can refer to that Conversation with regard any Information that was given.

    We Will Not Anwser Questions that are already Answered.

    Questions Like are you open ? When is the Next Event? How Much is it etc, etc.

  • The Butterfly Club Operators reserve the right to add or amend information at any time

    " so please keep updated"

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